my parents and my sister are juz so wonderful and once again they hav produced some crap which made me stress. i juz dont understand y they cant juz understand each other ." Nobody can make you sad, nobody can make you glad. You alone are responsible for you own feelings. " , ya that's the truth , but too bad , they dun understand it, that's y conflicts are happening .
yes , you maybe playing the blame game and projecting the blame on everyone around you for the way you feel. However,the truth is no one owns your feelings except you.You can choose to be angry or forgiving,loving or hateful, mad or glad. And you can actually choose to change the way you feel.
Feelings can not right or wrong. Rather , the actions , thoughts and attitudes we choose to take based on feelings can be right or wrong -constructive or destructive. Feelings simply start out being positive or negative and must be evaluated and tested. Anger is a negative feeling which left unchecked can develope into strift , bitterness , hate and offense. Feelings are real but not realilty , that's wad i think.
we must take responsibility for our own feelings and actions. Dont blame others , dont always expect them to do wad you wan as others are not perfect. You may feel offended , so what's the admirable way to express your feelings to that person? yes , you may feel very angry at 1st , you may wanna kill that person or juz ignore that person for the rest of your life, but cool down and think , which is more important, which way can make you happier? - fixing a relationship or holding the bitterness in your heart?
no one is perfect ,but if you treasure the relationship with that person , you will accept him or her mistakes ,no matter wad happen , you will try to find a best way to express your feeling and fix the relationship.

(lefashion)